Kayla Brumm, a graduate student in Social Work at the University of Kentucky specializing in sex therapy and relationship therapy, smiling and leaning against a wooden post on a beach, wearing a green sleeveless top and showcasing her tattoos.

Kayla Brumm

MSW, LSW (she/hers)
Clinician

Hi, I’m Kayla Brumm, a Licensed Social Worker with a Master of Social Work from the University of Kentucky, with certificates in Clinical Social Work, Trauma-Informed Care, and Substance Use Disorders. My passion lies in helping individuals and couples foster healthy communication, explore their sexuality, and process feelings of guilt or shame.

With personal experience as a military spouse, I have a deep understanding of the unique challenges that military couples face, especially around intimacy during and after deployment. I also work with service members navigating their sexuality, offering a supportive and understanding space. Growing up in the South, I know firsthand the stigma, guilt, and fear often tied to desire, sexuality, and kink. My goal is to help clients release internalized shame and embrace their authentic selves.

I have a deep passion for working with the polyamorous/ethical non-monogamy community as well as kinky folx. I want people to feel seen and understood no matter their sexual interests. As we often say in sex therapy "don't yuck someone's yum!" 

I use a trauma-informed approach through blending EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and a blend of relationship therapy techniques to help people find healing and pleasure in their relationships.

I am committed to providing gender-affirming care and creating a respectful, empathetic, and empowering environment. My approach is client-centered, focusing on helping you find confidence and comfort in your body and life. By being present with you through pain, discomfort, fear, joy, and all that life brings, I strive to create a safe space where you can truly thrive.

Fees: 

  • Individual initial assessment: $145
  • Individual follow up sessions: $125
  • Couples therapy initial assessment: $170
  • Couples follow up sessions: $150

Some areas of specialization (for all persons 18+):

  • BDSM
  • Communication
  • Consensual non-monogamy and polyamory
  • Desire discrepancy
  • Fetishes
  • Gender identity
  • Intimacy for military personnel/dependents
  • Kink
  • Low libido
  • LGBTQIA+
  • Men’s sexual health
  • Painful sex
  • Performance anxiety
  • Pleasure enhancement
  • Purity culture
  • Sexual anxiety
  • STI/STD disclosure
  • Trans-affirming
  • Women’s pelvic pain and sexual health

Education and Qualifications:

  • Licensed Social Worker: S.2512209
  • Gottman Level 1 Trained
  • Master of Social Work from the University of Kentucky, May 2025
  • LGBTQIA+ and Cultural Diversity Trained

Find my licensing information for Ohio at the Ohio Counselor, Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist Board.