Sex Therapy Couples Intensive

An intensive is a deep, focused experience designed to help couples shift patterns that feel stuck around sex and intimacy. It is not crisis therapy, and it’s not about pushing anyone toward sex they don’t want.

This intensive may be right for you if:

• You feel emotionally safe with one another most of the time
• You’re able to stay in the room during difficult conversations
• Both partners are willing to slow down and reduce pressure around sex
• You want understanding and connection, not quick fixes
• You’re open to experiential exercises focused on communication and pleasure
• You see yourselves as being on the same team, even when frustrated

This intensive may not be the right fit right now if:

• There is ongoing infidelity, secrecy, or major trust rupture
• One partner feels coerced or pressured to attend
• There is frequent emotional abuse, contempt, or hostility
• Either partner is actively dissociating or highly dysregulated in sessions
• You are primarily seeking a diagnosis, medical treatment, or sex “homework”
• The relationship itself is uncertain or on the brink of ending

In these cases, ongoing therapy or a different type of support is often more helpful before an intensive.

The investment for a sex therapy couples intensive is $2,600.

This includes:

• Pre-intensive screening and preparation
• One full-day intensive session
• One complimentary 50-minute follow-up session

A 50% non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your date. Full details about payment and cancellation are reviewed during the screening process.

1. Request an Intensive

You’ll start by submitting a brief interest form.

2. Private Pre-Screening Questionnaires

Each partner completes a confidential questionnaire to ensure this format is the right fit.

3. Consultation Call

We’ll meet briefly together to confirm readiness, answer questions, and determine next steps.

4. Your Intensive Day

A structured, paced day with built-in breaks and support throughout.

5. Follow-Up Session

An optional 50-minute check-in to support integration after the intensive.

Sex therapy intensives are not about pushing anyone toward sex or sexual activity. Everything we do is consent-based, optional, and responsive to each partner’s nervous system and comfort level.

The goal is not performance. The goal is understanding, safety, and choice.

Explore Whether an Intensive Is Right for You

Is this therapy, or is it more like coaching or education?

This is therapy. The intensive is facilitated by a licensed, AASECT-certified sex therapist and follows the same ethical and clinical standards as ongoing therapy. While there is some psychoeducation, the work is relational, experiential, and tailored to you as a couple.

Will we be expected to talk about very private sexual details?

You are always in control of what you share. The focus is on understanding patterns, communication, and what helps or blocks intimacy — not on graphic detail. Nothing is required, and consent is checked throughout the process.

Do we have to do sexual or physical exercises during the intensive?

No. There is no nudity or sexual activity during the session. Some exercises may involve communication, awareness, or gentle, optional experiential practices. Everything is consent-based and can be declined or modified at any time.

Is this right for us if one partner wants sex more than the other?

Yes. Desire differences are one of the most common reasons couples seek a sex therapy intensive. The goal is not to make both partners want the same amount of sex, but to reduce pressure, increase understanding, and find more sustainable ways to connect.

What if we get emotionally overwhelmed during the day?

Breaks are built into the day, and additional pauses can be requested at any time. Feeling emotional or tired does not mean something is going wrong. The pace is adjusted as needed, and emotional safety is prioritized throughout.

Can we do this virtually, or does it need to be in person?

Both options are available. Some couples prefer the comfort of being at home, while others value the containment of an in-person setting. We’ll talk through what’s likely to be the best fit during the screening process. In person will be held in Mason, OH.

Will one day really make a difference?

An intensive is not a cure-all, but it can create meaningful shifts in understanding, communication, and how sex feels emotionally. Many couples experience relief simply from slowing down and having guided, focused space to work on this together. Ongoing therapy is sometimes recommended to support longer-term change.

What happens after the intensive?

Your intensive includes one complimentary 50-minute follow-up session to support integration and maintenance. This session is optional and typically scheduled within a few weeks of the intensive.

Is insurance accepted?

No. Therapy intensives are self-pay and are not billable to insurance. Payment details and policies are reviewed during the screening process.

What if we’re not sure this is the right fit?

That’s completely okay. The screening process is designed to help determine whether this format is supportive for you right now. If it’s not the best fit, other options or referrals can be discussed.

How do we get started?

Click Request an Intensive to submit a brief interest form. From there, you’ll receive information about next steps, including screening and scheduling.

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